Yeah, also neither it wants to move out because you pushed start button too many times or stay sullen over weekend because dinner plan on Friday got canceled.
Stop with this infantilising crap. People can have both rewarding relationships and pastimes. Just because someone likes configuring software does not suggest they neglect their relationships or have delusions that need correction about the value of things in their life.
I’m personally moving to the Fairphone with preinstalled e/os. A phone that I control, can repair, and has more privacy than the other OS is what I expected from Apple until the past decade where they decided that privacy was a joke.