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First off - thank you for reaching out - great step!

Yes, absolutely. I’m 44 and starting to thrive. You can too.

For me, going to therapy was key. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectic Behavioral Therapy are both effective and relatively short (< 6 months). These will train new skills for you to regulating the strong emotions and helping you with anxiety etc.

Be patient and kind to yourself, we didn’t have a lot of these skills taught to our generation. 1980s was not a time known for kindness and acceptance, for others or ourselves.


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